Good dating ways
If your partner comes home angry from work, or is upset about something not directly related to you, then you should get active.
You two can go for a walk outside or go to the gym ASAP.
Also, by walking away, they will be left alone in the room, yelling, and pretty soon they’ll start feeling rather stupid to be acting so childish.
She granted me permission to reply here on my blog. Neglect can kill a relationship just as thoroughly as it can a houseplant.Just for fun, let’s assume you wanted to use a deadly venom to inflict a fatal blow to one of your closest relationships (I know, but just play along! Judge harshly and hold others to unreasonable standards of perfection. Wait for the moment you can cut them off and take over. Bring up old wounds and old mistakes whenever arguing no matter how old or irrelevant to the current issue. Blow everything out of proportion while you’re at it. Use all-inclusive and all-exclusive terms that give no room for nuance or accuracy or shades of gray. The more unreasonable, in fact, the louder you should demand they be met … If they insist that they’re right, be hurt as though their disagreement is the same as a slap in your face or spit in your eye. Now go to work to change those traits or habits that have sabotaged your relationships for far too long. Take note of those characteristics you recognized and go to work reversing them.Never tolerate mistakes or character weaknesses or personality flaws. When your friends need an ear, give them a mouthful. For added toxicity, when they come to vent, interrupt their venting to vent about their venting! If they challenge you on its relevancy, yell louder until they give in and accept the illogic of your diatribe as logical. Ignore the inconvenient fact that you’re disagreeing with them as much as they are with you. To My Dear Reader Whose Email Prompted this Series …We all know exercising releases endorphins, and endorphins make you happy.After a workout or some fresh air, you can feel pretty relaxed and calm. All relationships have good days and bad days, but just because you two may not agree on something, or life doesn’t go the way you want it to, does not mean it needs to turn into a huge fight.It’s never fun being around someone who is screaming or yelling *think crying babies on airplanes*, and it’s especially not fun when it’s your significant other.If you yell loud enough and blow things out of proportion large enough, they’ll likely never notice the inconsistency. ” The result of such attitudes and behaviors is certain death to the relationship you may be desperately trying to hold on to. One last word on friendship: Not all people are capable of being true friends. They are plagued with selfishness or pride or other traits that get in the way of being true friends. Oh yeah, don’t forget to Tweet and Share this post if you think others may find value in it!No matter what is said or done or not said or not done, interpret it as an attack on the core of your very being. Be so fragile that others are forced to walk on eggshells around you. Use phrases for any and all such instances like, “That’s just proof you never really cared! In fact, some of your behavior may be the result of that very desperation, a sort of panic-induced hope to cling to the carcass that was a friendship once upon a time. If that’s been the case for you, or if the relationships you have lost are beyond repair, learn the lessons the lost friendships can teach you and then seek new friends from better sources. ____________________________________________________________ If you haven’t yet subscribed to get my free e Book, My name is Ken Wert, the founder of M2b H.It’s just ice cream, it can be replaced, and it will taste the same as the one before.This is an example of a very stupid thing to get upset over.